In order to appear engaging to others, you need to make an effort to be engaged with what’s going on with them.
In other words, you need to be interested in others, if you want them to care about whatever you have to offer.
There’s that old saying about catching more flies with honey than vinegar, which means it’s easier to get what you want from others if you’re sweet to them.
It’s not meant to be manipulative, it’s just simply meant to be a reminder that:
We are a part of the world we share with everyone else.
We actually need these other people to cooperate with us in order to have a more enjoyable life experience.
And the best way to get them to want to cooperate with us, is to be as engaging as we can be, with them.
Fox Michaels is a Certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Practitioner from the Academy of Modern Applied Psychology. He is an intuitive leader with more than 15 years experience as a trainer. In his spare time, Fox writes the ongoing blog Like a Fox!, where he shares his fun, joyful approach to life and love, as his own way of contributing to the Human Potential Movement. When not reading from his library full of personal development books, you can find Fox enjoying the cinema perks of being on AMC’s A-List, and also working to make sure that he’s the most stylish man on his own Instagram page. Feel free to check out if he's succeeding with that @foxmichaels.
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