At some point you have to stop asking for a blessing, and start allowing it to happen.
The key is figuring out when that is. My best guess is that it’s as soon as you have a clear idea of what you want in your mind.
Once that’s clear, then you need to start allowing it to come. That’s when you apply faith. Faith is defined as: complete trust or confidence in someone or something. Also, I don’t believe that faith is a passive act.
In other words, I don’t think you’re supposed to just sit by the window, doing nothing but having faith that your blessing is coming. I actually think that when you have complete trust that it will come, then you go about actively living your life, because you’re not worried about asking all the time.
And it’s in the living of your life that helps bring that blessing to you. If anything, I think it’s a nice way to go about it. And certainly much more fun than sitting by a window waiting and asking, asking and waiting.