It’s very easy to forget that your life is yours.
Part of it is to blame on others trying to manipulate you. Part of it is your own choice.
It’s easier to give the responsibility for the state of your life to others, and claim you have no options.
But that isn’t really true.
You do have a choice about how your life should go.
It’s a great responsibility, and the best advice around is to simply take your time in making any choice for yourself.
Make sure you are clearly choosing what is best for your life in this moment.
And then proceed accordingly for the next moment, and so on.