Becoming is a word that has two meanings.
One of them is is an adjective meaning flattering.
The other is more of a philosophy, meaning the process of coming to be something.
As we all get to create our own lives, I say make it one that is becoming.
Remember that it is always unfolding, and coming into being something greater than it was before. And, all the while, you might as well make it as flattering as possible.