The idea of winning can be a trap. It implies lack.
In order for someone to win, everyone else has to lose.
It implies that there is not enough for everyone to win.
Being obsessed with winning teaches you to be ever aware of this lack.
Even when you win, you need to make sure that you stay a winner, or else you become a loser.
Perhaps it’s better to focus on appreciation.
Focus on gratitude and awareness of abundance.