Most of the great teachers advise to let go of desperately wanting so much, and relax. It seems tricky, but it’s true. If I’m focused on wanting something desperately, then I’m focused on the fact that I don’t have it. I can’t get it, because I’m busy wanting it.
Wanting and having are two different states of being.
Perhaps accepting is a more effective state. Accepting and having are states that resemble each other much better. And accepting that it’s mine to have, doesn’t give off the same desperate vibe as wanting to have it does.
So, like the great teachers advise, it’s best to just let go of all that desperation, get into a state of acceptance, and be cool.
Fox Michaels is a Certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Practitioner from the Academy of Modern Applied Psychology. He is an intuitive leader with more than 15 years experience as a trainer. In his spare time, Fox writes the ongoing blog Like a Fox!, where he shares his fun, joyful approach to life and love, as his own way of contributing to the Human Potential Movement. When not reading from his library full of personal development books, you can find Fox enjoying the cinema perks of being on AMC’s A-List, and also working to make sure that he’s the most stylish man on his own Instagram page. Feel free to check out if he's succeeding with that @foxmichaels.
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