The idea of winning can be a trap. It implies lack. In order for someone to win, everyone else has to lose. It implies that there is not enough for everyone to win. Being obsessed with winning teaches you to be ever aware of this lack. Even when you win, you need to make sure … Continue reading Winning
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Cooperation
The fact is that we need each other to move forward in this life. We need to cooperate with each other, rather than fight against each other. It's like the image of a thread, which isn't very strong on its own, and can break easily. When multiple threads are woven together, they form a strong … Continue reading Cooperation
Have Fun
Have fun, because life was meant to be enjoyed. Have fun without keeping score if you're having more fun than someone else, because that's tinged with the pressure of competition. And competition may spike you with a jolt of adrenaline, but ultimately it feels more like work, which has it's value, but isn't purely fun. … Continue reading Have Fun