Destiny is what you make of it. You determine how your life unfolds by the decisions you make daily. It's true that outside forces create obstacles and setbacks, but it's how we choose to respond that makes the biggest difference. Our destiny is in our own hands.

The idea of destiny is pretty much a fantasy, unless you understand the nature of reality. And that is you see what you believe. So, destiny is what you've decided it is. And if you've decided it, then you're destined for it, whatever "it" is.